Overweight guys dating

Or you will act nervous around women because you feel inferior or insecure about being overweight.

) that always looks for evidence that our current beliefs are accurate The intention of this is to stop us going crazy, but it can have unintended consequences if we don’t know about it Here’s an example of it working: An atheist and a person who believes in God both believe they are right about their belief.

Because of their belief, they both look for evidence of their belief being correct, and their brains find evidence that supports their belief and makes them highly aware of it, and it hides or downplays evidence that undermines or conflicts with their belief.

Even before addressing the cause of being fat/overweight and looking at ways to get an overweight man back to a healthy weight, there are still things fat men can do to be more attractive to women. However, this is never going to be as effective as combining the above techniques with treating the true cause of the issue.

In addition, treating the true cause can often auto-correct a lot of the above as well.

), which suggests to me that lots of overweight guys must be searching for help in this area, and this should hopefully make this article and video easier for them to find.

It’ll therefore also make it easier for them to get the love, support and encouragement they deserve, which is the intention of this video, and my intention for the gentleman who asked the question at my live event where this was filmed.

Acknowledge that what you’ve been doing isn’t working and you need to do something differently to get a different result.

2 – Realise that you have a ‘story’ of the reasons why you are unattractive and how you are a ‘victim’ and powerless to change it that you tell yourself.

Please watch all the way to the end of the video to get the full message and hear the gentleman who asked the question say ‘thank you’.

When my speaking events finish, I frequently offer to take questions from people who choose to stay longer.

Ask yourself “how many more days do I want to keep telling myself that story and clinging to those reasons? When are you going to let go in order to have a different life?

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