Dating a know it all
I’ve read many books about relationships and Christian dating. His views helped me establish my own standards regarding marriage.I decided that I wanted nothing less than God’s best for me. It means if you have doubts about the relationship, if your significant other doesn’t treat you with the upmost respect, if you argue more than you get along, if you constantly find yourself defending him or her to your friends, then end it.
I ran down the partial list in my head and realized they were all there. As I began to observe his life and how he interacted with others, as well as how wonderfully he always treated me, I decided that there could really be something here.
As I prayed about it, I felt like God gave me permission to pursue it. And now, after nearly four years of marriage I am so glad I followed God’s leading.
Later on, when I prayed about the possibility of marriage, God answered that prayer clearly too. It’s not that my husband and I never disagree, or that we do not get on each other’s nerves periodically, but married life is so much simpler when you know that this is the person that God led you to.
With that in mind, we know God will see us through whatever difficulties we face in the future.
But although he said his faith was important to him, attending church and reading the Bible were not high on his priority list.
I had to ask myself, “Is he really on the same page as me when it comes to my Christian faith?
I truly wanted to do what I felt was God’s will, but I also really didn’t want to give up the relationship.
It wasn’t until I was fully ready to obey God’s leading, that the answer came.
Since I had not done such a great job of choosing relationships on my own, I decided to let God choose the next one.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating